Men's Intimacy Signs

You really don't have to do the deed to find out if your man is comfortable with intimacy. Take note of these indicators:

Go out for dinner – If he scours the menu and chooses the most boring dish on it, you may be in for a so-so time. Food is one of life’s pleasures so a man who loves to eat will probably be sensual, too. If he’s willing to be adventurous or picks something he’s never tried before, chances are he’ll bring the same spirit elsewhere.

Really listen – If he speaks in a monotone voice and hardly ever changes his facial expression you may not be in for one hot night. Men who move their arms, hands and face when they talk are more excitable and enthusiastic.

Look him in the eye – If he doesn’t want to look you in the eye, or looks away nervously every time, he’s either really shy or hiding something. But if he staring at you so much it’s making you uncomfortable, he could be too intense or self-assured. The perfect gentlemen should hold your gaze for a couple of seconds at a time – showing he’s interested and respectful.

Hit the dance floor – Dancing requires rhythm, variety, timing and energy and so does sex! Look out for men who can keep up with the music and don’t take themselves too seriously. Any man who’s parading around with his shirt off doing a replica of Michael Jackson’s "Thriller" is probably cocky and slightly selfish in the bedroom.

Ask to meet his friends – His friends have probably taught him or learned everything he knows about the birds and the bees with him, so find out what they’re like. If his mates are warm, sociable and funny, chances are you man will have the same qualities. If he greets his friends with firm handshakes and full-body hugs it shows he’s not afraid of intimacy. The more comfortable he is with expressing affection, the more loving and attentive he will be to you. 

Look at what seat he chooses – If he chooses the seat opposite you facing a wall he can’t be distracted by people watching – meaning he only has eyes for you! The more he focuses on you, the more he will be able to concentrate on pleasing you. A man who decides to sit in prime view of the bar may be looking for something or someone else.

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